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BE HAPPY!!!

By: Gramma900
Mood: Happy
Date: Nov 05, 2007
Music: None


Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?"
Now that was a hard one to answer when I was new. In fact, my answer back then was, "But I was right! He/she/they were wrong! It has nothing to do with being happy!" I was very stubborn. And by clinging to my self righteous pride and ego, I fought a lot of people and a lot of things to maintain my right to be right.
I paid a steep price for this stubbornness. Living in opposition to so many people, places and institutions takes a lot of energy and it constantly creates resentments. And resentments will kill me. In order to stay alive I've had to learn to forget about who is right or wrong and instead focus on my part. Mine is the only part I can control, and if my side of the street is clean then I become open to the only real solution to any situation: forgiveness, surrender and acceptance.
Today I know that while I rarely have the opportunity to be right, I always have the choice to be happy. By doing a 10th step each day and looking at and correcting my part, I get to forget about who is right, and I get to be happy and free instead. And today I'd rather be happy than right. 
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