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Frustration With Support Sites

By: SaskSk8er
Mood: Frustrated
Date: Jul 15, 2008
Music: Gob Paint It Black


Maybe its just me but I am freaking frustrated with sites that claim to be support for addiction (and yes I am including this site in my frustration...)

Yesterday I was dealing with a difficult situation.. a death of a friend I lived with in a recovery house and got close to so I came on to a few different addiction support sites looking to talk to someone because even though I was saying things like "remember why we are here" and such I was hurting really bad.. I am much better today but still how can anyone who cant make it out to a 12 step meeting (or doesnt goto 12 step meetings) find any support if when they look for it they get shut down with corny lines like "the world will know the type of person they are through you.." when in reality I only knew a tiny part of them... I needed someone to tell me its alright what I was feeling was normal. It just makes me realize that a good portion of people on these sites like on any other type of sites are a bunch of phonies and fakes and dont know jack about being there for someone in a time of need. Notice how I said good portion... There are some genuine people on these sites but the number of fakes are so freaking high that the genuine ones sorta just blend into the background.

I am seriously loosing faith in these support sites which is sad because with my work schedule it is hard to make it to meetings and to see or talk to my sponser.

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From: JMB
July 15, 2008, 7:12 pm
I tend to agree with you. There seems to be somewhat of a clique here. I am new to the program and I am looking for people that understand and will engage in cyber conversation and give advice. At first it seemed like a great site. Quite a few members seemed to embrace me and offer help. Over the last few days it has seemed to slow down almost to a stop. I was logging on to have messages in my in box for several weeks. Now it is rare to have one. Only a couple of members even return messages much less intitiate them. I haven't tried any other sites yet. Like I said this is very new to me. I think after reading your blog I may just skip it and look for other venues. jmb  

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July 15, 2008, 6:35 pm

Hey, I'm sorry i missed what you were needing but am with you when people tell me "oh it will be ok, etc".  I think sometimes people arent sure what to say so rather than say nothing they give what they can. I can say though that anytime you need to talk pelase let me know.  I am usually around to chat. 

Just a [piece of advisee stay far away from the fakes....I got really burned by one of them.  Through experience I have learned that there re many people in life who have  "different" motives than what we may need or want.

Hugs,

Jenn



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