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I
am
a
newbie.
I
suspected
my
husband
was
a
sex
addict
when
I
discovered
pornography
and
the
amount
of
money
he
was
spending
on
his
fantasies
about
2
years
ago.
I
have
been
unable
to
trust
since
then.
We
were
separated,
but
about
a
month
ago,
decided
to
reconcile
and
try
to
work
things
out.
I
had
a
keylogger
installed
on
my
computer
and
have
monitored
his
behavior.
I
found
emails
to
and
from
many
many
women
over
60
days
(52)
He
met
with
many
of
them.
One
email
was
from
a
woman
who
warned
him
she
exposed
him
to
Heprough
anal
sex.
I
was
immediately
tested
for
STD's
(am
waiting
for
the
results)
I
immediately
confronted
the
situation.
Like
all
addicts,
he
is
blaming
this
on
me.
Fortunately
I
have
been
in
counseling
and
have
not
taken
on
the
blame.
In
my
heart
there
is
no
blame,
because
he
has
a
problem,
and
until
he
takes
it
on
and
decides
to
overcome
it,
there
is
nothing
I
can
do.
I
recxeived
an
email
that
it
was
a
test
and
I
failed.
I
asked
him
to
leave.
I
guess
I
need
support
on
how
to
handle
this.
I
am
holding
my
ground.
Anyone
been
thru
this?
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ABC (A Buffalo Co-dependant)
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