Addiction

If pain/pleasure were simply opposite or positive/negative expressions then I start life from a neutral zone and move any direction without having to know the other like a life made out of happiness only. But metaphors are different/Multilateral then that, down to earth physical pain is part of defense mechanism so we protect the body, it also is equipped with mechanism that releases pain relievers; controls our sensitivity to pain; places it is in order to assume pain is there to memorize things/situations to avoid, so we learn without much falling and don’t want to fall accelerates the learning presses (inspiration derived from pain fear ethics?) How to walk or avoid touching things that look like something very hot or sharp. There are commonly recognizes theories that some pain relieving mechanism hunger -food, sensed by taste, smell also other senses are not only acquired habit but may also change under extreme circumstances (temperature, food availability) in accordance with physical requirements. this short of constructive (supportive of individual/species existence) pain reliving mechanisms/methods are easily learned by our brain as something preferable, we have come to one definition of pleasure as selective pain relief, where selection is learned and proved the wrong pain relieve mechanisms can be learned as  constrictive exception if our very strong intelligence convinces it self to learn some destructive pain relieve is important for our self preservation, access to a knowledge base and willingness is more then sufficient to create a psychopath out of a plain kid. Anyway a important positive example is physical exercise once recognized/learned by our physical system/intelligence as something constrictive to our life/existence; we recognize the pain relief mechanism triggered as a ‘pleasing’ feeling. Once taken it is not very important what these addictive chemicals  when the outcome always begins with high energy only to ends with tiredness. if age related advantages is not included, ending long term substance abuse habit begins with a short painful detoxification but introduces a long and devastating depression, results in lack of motivation (aka gratitude) leading to any job/task half-done or falling substandard my known efforts tells me I’ve  lost self-confidence required for any person to act correctly and this has taken away my ability to rely/trust on others required to live a productive social life also makes me see myself weaker/afraid of all who don’t suffered sub-abuse habit although I can still stay on a stronger professional chain of command Just as long I don't let them know my secretes. Life’s hard effort to got where I am today. The sense security is the foundation block of group identity/social behaviors/human bonds, when you know you are weaker then others exchange security in some what equal terms with rest of the group is impossible, you have fear comes from the weak real hidden you, secretes must be protected, afraid of loosing everything if some one can see through me. You hide from everybody- isolation. Social things dies! Strong/stable/committed enough to provide security to the next person so do not deserve it from him. Previous pain/pleasure principals applied when feeling insecure suppose to be driven by the pain you are suppose to gather back required strength; ‘fundamental fear ethics’. The lacking-confidence you do the opposite, you touched by fear ethics will panic, not fight back for your secured position but flee, hide isolate self. Chase away people trying to get closer to you with ferocity proportionate to the fear/threat others mean to you. Paranoia in control no trust/love (same thing, source of security) can’t be a life worth living. So need to get better, planning to join early morning people running in a near by park. Introducing physical pain through recognized means of healthy body/mind also among health conscious people sounds like a very good shot at lost ‘right amount of trust worthiness’ where I don’t see myself and out of depression….isolation vicious cycle. Security/lack of trust foundation pain/pleasure building block of social/group behavior from small to big, a single pair/family, citizens of a nation religious/cultural ID

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