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Mood: Tired
Date: Jul. 06, 2008
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I told my mom a year ago I have a drinking problem.  And yet she still offers alcohol everytime I go over there.  That makes me feel like she either isn't listening or isn't taking it seriously like she should.





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From: jess
July 7, 2008, 10:04 pm
My dad does the same thing. To me and my younger sister....she's an alcoholic and i'm an addict(in which alcohol is included). My dad is an alcoholic and my mom died 3 years ago at the age of 50 from alcoholism....literally drank herself to death. Is your mom an alcoholic? If not maybe she just doesnt "get" it. Can you get real REAL honest w/ her? Like tell her what happens to you when you drink..... tell her some of the things you've done while drinking or places it has led you? Is there some way to make it "real" to her? Maybe she just cant wrap her brain around the fact that her baby girl has a problem. I dunno. Hang in there. Just keep your boundaries. Not that this is the way to do it, but it was the only way i knew how at the time..... I stopped talking to my dad and stopped seeing him.... but that was because he was always drunk and i HATED who he was when he drank. Could you tell your mom that she needs to stop offering you alcohol, and if she doesnt then you cant come over? Just some thoughts. Hang in there!

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